The fact that she couldn't even realise that it wasn't normal without asking her friend is insane. Tl dr Girlfriend got to some weird conclusion just based on me changing my lockscreen wallpaper, she thinks that it's a sign that I don't love her and stuff like that Is this something that people deal with everyday, and should I be concerned? She listens to other people when they say something is totally normal, but when I tell that to her she doesn't acknowledge it at all. We worked it out pretty well, she relaxed after she asked her friend if her boyfriend does the same and she says he does and that doesn't mean anything. She thought that I love her less or something like that, she sees things like that as a potential issue, she even said we aren't made for each other based on the fact I changed my wallpaper because I got used to it and wanted something different, and I'm personally not the type to show love true profile pictures and phone wallpaper which she thinks is what people do and what is a sign of love and affection. She didn't talk to me for an hour at least and even cried a little in silence. I changed it month ago and my girlfriend just noticed today and her mood went from 100 to 0 real quick. I am really a smartphone enthusiast, and I love customizing my phone, I change wallpapers daily, but never my lockscreen. If you or someone you know is involved in an abusive relationship or would like information on warning signs to watch out for, check out The Red Flag Campaign.įor most of our relationship I had the same photo of two of us as a wallpaper on my lockscreen, more because she wanted me to and thought about it as sign of love. If a user has sent you harassing messages, please upload your screenshot to, and notify the mods via modmail. Users found to be privately messaging other users to circumvent this directive will be met with a permanent, irrevocable ban. If you wish to opine on the matter at hand, you are to comment on the post. No espousing rhetoric/linking to subs or content that is conspiratorial in nature, transphobic, anti-women/men, anti-LBGT+, that promote anti-vaxx or anti-science content, or contains harmful rhetoric against groups of people. No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals and content. We do not care who started it, or how deserving you think the subject of your ire. Please note that this is not an all-inclusive list. This includes, but is not limited to: Whore, ho, hoe, slut, bitch, idiot, moron, slut shaming (including "I can't get over their past"), slurs against someone's racial, ethnic, religious, gender or sexual identity. Insulting anyone (be it OP, the subject of the post, someone you know/used to know, users, etc) will result in post/comment removal, and the user being banned. No name calling, insults, or insensitive language ( details). Remember, the goal is to help your fellow human. Derailing arguments, jokes, fights, and moral whataboutism is not allowed. message us) before communicating with users directly.Īll comments must be on topic and focus on the OP, in good faith. Press Requests must be routed through u/eganist (via modmail. If you're doing educational work, message us with your IRB number, a point of contact for us to verify your pending research, and the details of your research for consideration. Surveys, information requests, journalistic and academic research questions must be sent to modmail here and approved prior to posting. You can submit an update post exactly once at any time after 48 hours has past from the original post. Things this sub can't give advice on: Rants, unsolicited advice, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, mental health issues, medical health issues, legal problems, financial problems, any situations involving minors (under 18 regardless of local laws), and any situations involving abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). For what a moral judgement question would be please see this post. Moral judgement requests are asking people to evaluate actions taken or actions you want to take, in the context of right, wrong, selfish, or not selfish etc. No submissions giving advice, no links, no youtube videos, hypotheticals, general discussion/DAE/polls, adverts, or spam. Posts must contain a title that includes basic information such as ages, genders, length of relationship with text that has a description, a TLDR, and a direct answerable question.Īll submissions must request advice on a specific situation between two or more people. Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!
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